This So Called Love
Song Meaning
MercyMe compress this entire song into a single verse, listing a full catalog of devoted acts before undercutting all of them in one line: "I can be there for you when it can't get much harder... I can build you up when you're broken in shame." Every item on the list sounds like real love.
Then the turn: "but if all that we do is absent of Jesus, then this so called love is completely in vain." The song doesn't argue that any of the previous acts were fake or worthless — it argues they're incomplete without a specific foundation underneath them.
Paul's own list of impressive acts — giving away everything, even surrendering one's body — followed by the conclusion that without love it profits nothing, gives this song's structure its exact shape, just with a different missing ingredient named. John's declaration that people love because God first loved them backs up the song's claim that devotion needs a source outside itself to actually count as more than performance.
I can be there for you when it can't get much harder
I can cover your head when life starts to rain
I can hold on tight when you feel like you're falling
I can bread crumb the path when you've lost your way
I can make you laugh when the whole world is crying
I can build you up when you're broken in shame
But if all that we do is absent of Jesus, then this so called love is completely in vain...