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Open Wounds

By Skillet

21 views Oct 2, 2026 updated Verified editorial review

Song Meaning

Skillet's "Open Wounds" is a raw, first-person reckoning with betrayal and emotional damage, most likely from a parent or someone who was supposed to protect the narrator. The song opens in a dark room with music playing, the singer wishing to be anywhere else while absorbing someone else's anger. That image of taking abuse and wanting to disappear sets the tone for everything that follows. The chorus turns the pain into a question aimed straight at the wounder: how could you hate me when all I wanted was to be like you, and how could you claim to love me when all you ever gave me were open wounds? The second verse adds a domestic scene — an enemy asleep downstairs, a television left on, shared dreams dissolving into static — and the admission that nothing the narrator does will ever be good enough. There is no tidy resolution here. The bridge pleads for an explanation and asks when the war will end, while the repeated line about falling apart insists that the damage is blamed on the other person. The song sits in the ache rather than rushing to fix it, which is what makes it feel honest.
Lyrics Verified by Editorial Team

In the dark with the music on
Wishing I was somewhere else
Taking all your anger out on me (somebody help)
I would rather rot alone
Than spend a minute with you
I'm gone, I'm gone

And you can't stop me from falling apart
'Cause my self-destruction is all your fault

How could you, how could you
How could you hate me?
When all I ever wanted to be was you?
How could you, how could you, how could you love me?
When all you ever gave me were open wounds?
Open wounds

Downstairs the enemy sleeps
Leaving the TV on
Watching all the dreams we had turn into static
Doesn't matter what I do
Nothing's gonna change
I'm never good enough

And you can't stop me from falling apart
'Cause my self-destruction is all your fault!

How could you, how could you
How could you hate me?
When all I ever wanted to be was you?
How could you, how could you, how could you love me?
When all you ever gave me were open wounds?

Tell me why you broke me down and
Betrayed my trust in you I'm not giving up
Giving in when will this war end?
When will it end?

You can't stop me from falling apart
You can't stop me from falling apart
You can't stop me from falling apart
'Cause my self-destruction is all your fault

How could you, how could you
How could you hate me?
When all I ever wanted to be was you?
How could you, how could you, how could you love me?
When all you ever gave me were open wounds?
How could you, how could you
How could you, how could you
All I ever wanted to be was you
All you ever gave me were open wounds!

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